It Paid Off... For Once

So admitting that I didn't want to be that girl who texts the guy until he answers actually helped in my situation.I just really hope he doesnt end up reading this or our next conversation may be a little awkward. I will also admit that I am that girl who, if asked by her significant other, would go make a sandwich for them if asked. But thankfully this one doesn't seem like that type of guy... at least not yet. Now I will state that we arent exactly together but we are also not just friends at least I dont think we are JUST friends. There is a point where that question can be asked but it is not a good time to ask that question, or as stated in Awkward DTR( define the relationship). You dont want to do that too quickly because you also dont want to be that girl that makes the guy wonder why you wanna be in a relationship so quickly. You dont want to be thought of as the girl who cant be without a relationship making you very dependent on other people... not attractive! I am not a guy but I know most guys dont like to feel like they have to take care of the girl 24/7 or feel like they have to tiptoe around her so that he doesnt set off the emotional bomb ticking inside her. Now I may not have as much experience with guys as some people but I do have this little thing called common sense which a lot of people seem to be lacking these days. I mean I am friends with a lot of guys so I hear things from them and actually listen to what they like and dont like. Girls seriously stop acting like a ditz to get a guy its not cute, and if thats the kind of guy you are going for that goes for a girl who he cant have an intelligent conversation with it means he doesnt think what you have to say is worth hearing it or to him you are just his little trophy to show off to his guy friends who didnt think he could actually get a girl. By the way if that is the kind of guy you are going for I dont want to hear you complain about wanting a man! A man isn't going to treat you like a play toy, thats is something little boys do.. they play with toys. A man knows the worth of what he has, for the most part. A man isnt going to insult you in front of his buddies just to get a laugh. A man isnt going to expect things from you but ask if thats what you would like to do. But enough of my tired rant I think its time for me to go to bed.

TTFN Jenny